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The mistake of moving out before talking to a lawyer

The mistake of moving out before talking to a lawyer

Why leaving the marital home is a procedural catastrophe The air in my office usually smells like strong black coffee and the faint scent of old paper. Most clients come to me after they have already set their own house on fire. They sit across from me, looking for a miracle, and I have to…
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Why your spouse is trying to rush the settlement

Why your spouse is trying to rush the settlement

Why your spouse is trying to rush the settlement I watched a client lose their entire claim in the first ten minutes of a deposition because they ignored one simple rule about silence. They were so eager to get the ordeal over with that they volunteered information the opposing counsel had not even asked for…
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The danger of using the same lawyer as your spouse

The danger of using the same lawyer as your spouse

The air in the deposition suite smelled of stale paper and burnt coffee. I watched a client lose their entire claim in the first ten minutes of a deposition because they ignored one simple rule about silence. They had walked into the room thinking they were protected by a lawyer they shared with their spouse.…
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How to handle your first meeting with a divorce attorney

How to handle your first meeting with a divorce attorney

How to handle your first meeting with a divorce attorney The air in my office always smells like strong black coffee and old paper. It is the smell of a machine that grinds through human lives to find the remaining assets. If you are sitting across from me, your life is likely in shards. My…
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Why your emails to your lawyer are protected by privilege

Why your emails to your lawyer are protected by privilege

I watched a client lose their entire claim in the first ten minutes of a deposition because they ignored one simple rule about silence. We were sitting in a cramped conference room that smelled of stale ozone and floor wax. The air was thick with the tension of a multi-million dollar dispute. My client, an…
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How to protect your digital privacy during a legal battle

How to protect your digital privacy during a legal battle

I smell the burnt coffee in my mug and look at the screen where a client’s life is falling apart because they thought ‘incognito mode’ was a legal shield. It is not. I watched a client lose their entire claim in the first ten minutes of a deposition because they ignored one simple rule about…
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Why your lawyer wants you to stop talking to your sister about the case

Why your lawyer wants you to stop talking to your sister about the case

Why your lawyer wants you to stop talking to your sister about the case The office smells like strong black coffee and the cold, metallic scent of high-grade filing cabinets. I have sat across from enough broken claims to know that the most dangerous person in your litigation is not the opposing counsel, it is…
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How to fire a lawyer who is doing more harm than good

How to fire a lawyer who is doing more harm than good

The air in the deposition suite was heavy with the scent of stale coffee and the hum of an expensive air filtration system. I watched a client lose their entire claim in the first ten minutes of a deposition because they ignored one simple rule about silence. Their lawyer sat there, staring at a legal…
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Why you should stop taking legal advice from your divorced neighbors

Why you should stop taking legal advice from your divorced neighbors

I smell like strong black coffee because I spent the last six hours reviewing a discovery production that my client almost destroyed. I watched a client lose their entire claim in the first ten minutes of a deposition because they ignored one simple rule about silence. They thought they knew the law because their neighbor,…
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Why your family's advice is ruining your current legal strategy

Why your family’s advice is ruining your current legal strategy

The coffee in this office is the only thing that does not lie to you. It is black, bitter, and predictable. Your family, on the other hand, is a liability in a courtroom. As a senior trial attorney with twenty-five years in the trenches, I have seen more cases destroyed by a well-meaning aunt or…
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