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How to fire a lawyer who is doing more harm than good

How to fire a lawyer who is doing more harm than good

The air in the deposition suite was heavy with the scent of stale coffee and the hum of an expensive air filtration system. I watched a client lose their entire claim in the first ten minutes of a deposition because they ignored one simple rule about silence. Their lawyer sat there, staring at a legal…
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Why you should stop taking legal advice from your divorced neighbors

Why you should stop taking legal advice from your divorced neighbors

I smell like strong black coffee because I spent the last six hours reviewing a discovery production that my client almost destroyed. I watched a client lose their entire claim in the first ten minutes of a deposition because they ignored one simple rule about silence. They thought they knew the law because their neighbor,…
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Why your family's advice is ruining your current legal strategy

Why your family’s advice is ruining your current legal strategy

The coffee in this office is the only thing that does not lie to you. It is black, bitter, and predictable. Your family, on the other hand, is a liability in a courtroom. As a senior trial attorney with twenty-five years in the trenches, I have seen more cases destroyed by a well-meaning aunt or…
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The danger of using a friend’s settlement as your legal guide

The danger of using a friend’s settlement as your legal guide

I smell like strong black coffee and the cold residue of a 14-hour trial day. My office is a place where hope meets the blunt edge of the law. People walk in here clutching stories of what happened to their cousin or their best friend. They think they have a blueprint for their own life.…
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Why you should never hire the 'most aggressive' lawyer in town

Why you should never hire the ‘most aggressive’ lawyer in town

The high-cost myth of the courtroom pit bull I smell like strong black coffee and the cold reality of a failed motion. Sit down. Your case is currently on life support because you think a lawyer who screams the loudest is the one who wins. You are wrong. I watched a client lose their entire…
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Why your lawyer keeps asking about your new partner's criminal record

Why your lawyer keeps asking about your new partner’s criminal record

I tell my clients the truth before I even shake their hand. The legal system does not care about your feelings, your new romance, or your sense of privacy. It cares about evidence and the calculated mitigation of risk. I once watched a client lose their entire claim in the first ten minutes of a…
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The reason your lawyer wants you to stop emailing your ex every night

The reason your lawyer wants you to stop emailing your ex every night

The digital paper trail ruins your strategy Every email you send creates a permanent digital record that opposing counsel will use to establish your character, intent, and stability. In family law litigation, these communications are rarely protected by privilege and serve as the primary source of impeachment material during high-stakes courtroom testimony and depositions. I…
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Why your lawyer needs to see your bank statements immediately

Why your lawyer needs to see your bank statements immediately

I watched a client lose their entire claim in the first ten minutes of a deposition because they ignored one simple rule about silence and financial transparency. We sat in a room that smelled of burnt coffee and stale adrenaline. My client had hidden a three thousand dollar transfer to a relative. They thought it…
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The danger of using a general practice lawyer for a complex divorce

The danger of using a general practice lawyer for a complex divorce

The lethal risk of general practice representation in high stakes divorce litigation I smell the stale, burnt coffee of a long day in the clerk’s office as I look at your case file. It is a disaster. You hired a general practitioner, a jack of all trades who handles traffic tickets on Monday and real…
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How to fire a lawyer who is ignoring your calls

How to fire a lawyer who is ignoring your calls

You are sitting in a waiting room that smells like stale coffee and floor wax. Your phone is in your hand. You have sent four emails and left six voicemails over the last fourteen days. Nothing. Your case is moving forward or perhaps it is stalled in the discovery phase but you have no idea…
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