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Why your lawyer's lack of trial experience is a major liability

Why your lawyer’s lack of trial experience is a major liability

Why your lawyer’s lack of trial experience is a major liability The air in the deposition suite smells like ozone and mint. I sit in silence. I use that silence as a weapon. I watched a client lose their entire claim in the first ten minutes of a deposition because they ignored one simple rule…
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Why your lawyer's wait and see strategy is costing you thousands

Why your lawyer’s wait and see strategy is costing you thousands

I watched a client lose their entire claim in the first ten minutes of a deposition because they ignored one simple rule about silence. My coffee was cold. The room was sterile. My client looked at me for a lifeline that I could not provide because we had waited six months to file. This is…
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The truth about lawyer-client privilege and your secrets

The truth about lawyer-client privilege and your secrets

The deposition disaster that ended a claim I watched a client lose their entire claim in the first ten minutes of a deposition because they ignored one simple rule about silence. We were sitting in a sterile conference room in downtown Chicago. The smell of stale coffee and industrial cleaner hung heavy. My client, a…
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Why your legal fees are higher than your spouse's

Why your legal fees are higher than your spouse’s

Why your legal fees are higher than your spouse’s I watched a client lose their entire claim in the first ten minutes of a deposition because they ignored one simple rule about silence. It was a cold Tuesday morning. The air in the conference room was stale, smelling of strong black coffee and the faint…
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The risk of using a general practice lawyer for a complex divorce

The risk of using a general practice lawyer for a complex divorce

I smell strong black coffee and the metallic scent of a courtroom about to open. I have spent twenty five years in the pit. I watched a client lose their entire claim in the first ten minutes of a deposition because they ignored one simple rule about silence. Their lawyer was a jack of all…
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The mistake of thinking your lawyer is your therapist

The mistake of thinking your lawyer is your therapist

The financial suicide of the emotional retainer Family law litigation requires a strict focus on legal services rather than psychological relief. Your consultation time is a tactical window where every minute spent venting increases your bill without advancing your legal position or securing assets. I smell the stale coffee in my office at 6 AM…
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How to prepare for the first meeting with a divorce lawyer

How to prepare for the first meeting with a divorce lawyer

Strategies for surviving your first divorce consultation without losing your leverage The air in my office always carries the scent of bitter black coffee. I do not offer sugar. I do not offer comfort. You are here because your life is bifurcating. I watched a client lose their entire claim in the first ten minutes…
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How to spot a lawyer who is just trying to churn hours

How to spot a lawyer who is just trying to churn hours

The office smells like strong black coffee and old paper. I have spent twenty-five years in these rooms, and I can tell you within five minutes if the person sitting across from me is a trial lawyer or a professional biller. Most clients do not have that luxury. They see a mahogany desk and a…
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Why your lawyer wants to settle even if you want to fight

Why your lawyer wants to settle even if you want to fight

I smell the sharp acidity of black coffee and the metallic tang of old files every morning at 5 AM. I have spent twenty-five years in the trenches of the courtroom. I have seen clients walk in with fire in their eyes and leave with nothing but a massive bill because they refused to listen…
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The danger of using a friend’s divorce settlement as a guide

The danger of using a friend’s divorce settlement as a guide

The danger of using a friend’s divorce settlement as a guide The steam from my third cup of black coffee is the only thing keeping this room focused. I watched a client lose their entire claim in the first ten minutes of a deposition because they ignored one simple rule about silence. They walked into…
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