Category: Child Custody & Support

Strategic legal leverage for your most critical assets.

The problem with 'split custody' arrangements for biological siblings

The problem with ‘split custody’ arrangements for biological siblings

I smell the burnt roast of my third cup of coffee and the faint scent of ozone from the copier. My office is a tomb of case files. I watched a client lose their entire claim in the first ten minutes of a deposition because they ignored one simple rule about silence. They tried to…
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How to document parental alienation without looking unstable to a judge

How to document parental alienation without looking unstable to a judge

I watched a client lose their entire claim in the first ten minutes of a deposition because they ignored one simple rule about silence. They were so desperate to prove their ex was a monster that they filled the quiet gaps left by the opposing counsel with frantic, emotional anecdotes that were not supported by…
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How to win a custody modification when you've changed your life

How to win a custody modification when you’ve changed your life

The air in a high-stakes deposition room smells like ozone and mint. It is the scent of nervous energy and the clinical precision of a court reporter’s machine. I watched a client lose their entire claim in the first ten minutes of a deposition because they ignored one simple rule about silence. They had spent…
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The evidence required to prove your spouse is an unfit parent

The evidence required to prove your spouse is an unfit parent

I watched a client lose their entire claim in the first ten minutes of a deposition because they ignored one simple rule about silence. My client sat across from a defense attorney who understood that the human brain abhors a vacuum. The attorney asked a simple question about a weekend visit, then waited. My client,…
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How to win a custody battle against a parent with a higher income

How to win a custody battle against a parent with a higher income

The smell of burnt black coffee hangs heavy in the air of my office. You sit across from me, trembling because your ex-partner has a seven-figure salary and you have a modest bank account. Stop. Your case is failing because you believe the lie that family law is a bidding war. I have watched parents…
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The mistake of waiting too long to file for a support modification

The mistake of waiting too long to file for a support modification

The office smells like strong black coffee and the cold residue of a long night spent reviewing financial affidavits. You are sitting across from me because you think the law is fair. It is not. The law is a set of rigid gears, and you have already stuck your hand in the machinery by waiting.…
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How to stop your ex from taking the kids out of the country

How to stop your ex from taking the kids out of the country

The office smells like strong black coffee and the bitter weight of reality. You are sitting across from me because you think the system cares about your feelings. It does not. I watched a client lose their entire claim in the first ten minutes of a deposition because they ignored one simple rule about silence.…
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Why your ex’s new spouse shouldn't be at your custody exchange

Why your ex’s new spouse shouldn’t be at your custody exchange

Why bringing a new spouse to custody exchanges ruins your legal case I watched a client lose their entire claim in the first ten minutes of a deposition because they ignored one simple rule about silence. They thought showing up at a custody exchange with their new spouse was a power move. They thought it…
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How to handle a child who refuses to go on scheduled visitation

How to handle a child who refuses to go on scheduled visitation

I sit here with a cup of strong black coffee that is darker and more bitter than your current legal standing. You think your child has a vote in this process. They do not. You are walking into a buzzsaw of family law litigation because you believe emotional readiness is a valid legal defense against…
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How to prove your actual income when you are paid in cash

How to prove your actual income when you are paid in cash

The air in my office always carries the faint scent of ozone and mint. It is the smell of high stakes preparation. I have spent twenty-five years watching people walk into courtrooms thinking the truth will set them free. It won’t. Only evidence sets you free. In the world of family law and complex litigation,…
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