Category: Child Custody & Support

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The tactical move to make when your ex skips child support

The tactical move to make when your ex skips child support

The immediate response to missed payments The tactical move is the immediate filing of a Motion for Contempt coupled with an Income Withholding Order sent directly to the employer. This legal maneuver shifts the burden of proof to the obligor, forcing them to prove an inability to pay rather than requiring you to prove their…
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The secret to getting an emergency custody hearing granted

The secret to getting an emergency custody hearing granted

The secret to getting an emergency custody hearing granted I sit here with a cup of black coffee that has gone cold, staring at another pile of family law files where a parent waited three weeks too long to act. You want the secret to an emergency custody hearing. The truth is most people fail…
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Why your ex's new partner can't testify about your parenting

Why your ex’s new partner can’t testify about your parenting

The office smells like strong black coffee and the faint metallic tang of a legal filing system that hasn’t been updated since the Clinton administration. I tell my clients the truth because the truth is the only thing that won’t bite them in the neck during a cross examination. Most people walk into my office…
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Why your ex's new partner shouldn't be at the child exchange

Why your ex’s new partner shouldn’t be at the child exchange

The smell of stale black coffee is the only thing keeping me focused as I watch another family law case implode on my monitor. You think you are winning because you found a new partner who supports you. You think bringing them to the Sunday night exchange shows strength. It does not. It shows a…
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How to document your ex's refusal to follow the custody plan

How to document your ex’s refusal to follow the custody plan

I watched a client lose their entire claim in the first ten minutes of a deposition because they ignored one simple rule about silence. They thought their anger was a substitute for evidence. It is not. The court does not care about your hurt feelings or your ex’s personality flaws. The judge cares about the…
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How to get a child support order enforced across state lines

How to get a child support order enforced across state lines

Why your existing order feels like a suggestion Enforcing child support across state lines requires the immediate registration of the foreign order under the Uniform Interstate Family Support Act (UIFSA). This statutory framework ensures that only one valid support order exists at a time, preventing conflicting obligations while providing the legal teeth necessary to garnish…
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How to calculate self-employment income for support payments

How to calculate self-employment income for support payments

I watched a client lose their entire claim in the first ten minutes of a deposition because they ignored one simple rule about silence. They felt the need to fill the void. They started explaining why their business expenses were so high. By the time they finished talking, they had admitted to commingling personal and…
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Why your child's school records are key in custody cases

Why your child’s school records are key in custody cases

I watched a client lose their entire claim in the first ten minutes of a deposition because they ignored one simple rule about silence. We were sitting in a cramped conference room that smelled of stale coffee and industrial cleaner. The opposing counsel handed over a stack of third-grade attendance records. My client, thinking she…
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How to handle a spouse who is intentionally unemployed

How to handle a spouse who is intentionally unemployed

The brutal reality of the couch potato spouse in family law The office smells like burnt coffee and the heavy weight of a thousand files that should have been settled months ago. You are sitting across from me because your spouse decided that your divorce is their retirement plan. They have stopped looking for work,…
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How to handle a custody battle when one parent lives abroad

How to handle a custody battle when one parent lives abroad

I watched a client lose their entire claim in the first ten minutes of a deposition because they ignored one simple rule about silence. They felt the need to fill the void. They spoke about their ex-spouse’s new apartment in London with a sense of admiration rather than documenting the jurisdictional shift. That small talk…
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