Category: Child Custody & Support

Strategic legal leverage for your most critical assets.

How to prepare for a meeting with a court investigator

How to prepare for a meeting with a court investigator

How to Survive a Court Investigator Interview Without Losing Your Case The room smells like burnt black coffee and the harsh reality of a failing case. You think you are ready because you scrubbed the floors and bought organic fruit. You are wrong. I watched a client lose their entire claim in the first ten…
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How to fix a child support order when you lose your job

How to fix a child support order when you lose your job

You probably think your child support order magically adjusts the moment your employer hands you a pink slip. It does not. I have seen clients walk into my office with a termination notice and six months of unpaid debt, thinking they can just explain it away to a judge later. That is a lie that…
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How to prove you were the primary caregiver for your kids

How to prove you were the primary caregiver for your kids

Winning a custody battle is not about who loves the child more or who has the larger bank account. It is about the cold, hard data of daily existence. You are currently losing your case if you believe your word holds more weight than a paper trail. In the high stakes environment of family law,…
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The move to make when your ex stops paying child support

The move to make when your ex stops paying child support

I smell like strong black coffee and I have no patience for the excuses of a non-paying parent. Your case is currently failing because you are treating a legal obligation like a social request. In my twenty-five years of family law, I have seen parents lose everything because they prioritized being nice over being effective.…
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How to handle a custody battle when one parent wants to relocate

How to handle a custody battle when one parent wants to relocate

I sit in this chair smelling like strong black coffee and the cold reality of a courtroom floor. I watched a client lose their entire claim in the first ten minutes of a deposition because they ignored one simple rule about silence. They began babbling about their new adventure in another state and forgot that…
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Why your ex’s new partner can’t dictate your visitation schedule

Why your ex’s new partner can’t dictate your visitation schedule

Your visitation schedule belongs to the court not the new partner I watched a client lose their entire claim in the first ten minutes of a deposition because they ignored one simple rule about silence. My coffee was cold and the room smelled like floor wax and failure. The client thought they were being helpful…
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The loophole that allows you to reopen an old child support case

The loophole that allows you to reopen an old child support case

I recently spent 14 hours deconstructing a contract that was designed to be unreadable, only to find the one clause that changed everything. The document was a labyrinth of nested definitions and cross-references. Deep within the 42nd paragraph, a sub-clause regarding the definition of gross income had been misapplied for seven years. This single error…
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The danger of waiting too long to file for child support

The danger of waiting too long to file for child support

You are sitting across from me in a room that smells like strong black coffee and old paper. You are telling me about your ex-partner, about the promises made over text messages, and about how you wanted to be the bigger person by not involving the courts. You think you are being noble. I think…
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How to stop your ex from badmouthing you to the kids

How to stop your ex from badmouthing you to the kids

I smell like strong black coffee because I have been up since 4 AM reviewing the carnage of your previous failed hearings. You came here for a solution, but first, you need the truth. Your case is currently a disaster. You think the judge cares about your feelings or the fact that your ex-spouse is…
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Why joint custody doesn't mean zero child support

Why joint custody doesn’t mean zero child support

I watched a client lose their entire claim in the first ten minutes of a deposition because they ignored one simple rule about silence. They sat across from a high-priced litigator and started talking about how they deserved zero child support because they were taking the kids half the time. The opposing counsel just smiled…
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