Category: Child Custody & Support

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How to stop an ex from moving the kids to another state

How to stop an ex from moving the kids to another state

I watched a client lose their entire claim in the first ten minutes of a deposition because they ignored one simple rule about silence. They felt the need to fill the void, and in doing so, they admitted they did not really care about the move, only the loss of control over the schedule. That…
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How to stop your ex from moving the kids across the country

How to stop your ex from moving the kids across the country

The brutal mechanics of relocation litigation Interstate relocation is governed by the UCCJEA and state specific statutes that require a good faith reason for the move. To stop a move, a parent must file a motion for temporary injunction to maintain the status quo of the child residence and prevent the removal of the minor…
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The reason you should keep a calendar of missed visitations

The reason you should keep a calendar of missed visitations

The strategy of documentation in a failing family law case I watched a client lose their entire claim in the first ten minutes of a deposition because they ignored one simple rule about silence and data. My office smells like strong black coffee and the burnt rubber of a long commute. The client sat across…
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How to prove parental alienation without a psych evaluation

How to prove parental alienation without a psych evaluation

The air in my office usually smells like strong black coffee and the faint scent of old paper because I do not have time for the pleasantries of the legal industry. You are here because your family law case is likely failing and you believe a $15,000 psychological evaluation is the only way to save…
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The mistake of thinking your child support stops when you lose your job

The mistake of thinking your child support stops when you lose your job

The air in my office usually smells like stale black coffee and the clinical scent of laser-printed motions. It is the scent of reality hitting the fan. I have seen clients sit across from me with a look of pure shock because they believed a pink slip from their employer was a get-out-of-jail-free card for…
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The truth about using a private investigator in your custody case

The truth about using a private investigator in your custody case

Sit down and listen. The smell of burnt coffee in this office is the only thing keeping me awake after forty eight hours of reviewing grainy surveillance footage that will likely never see the inside of a courtroom. You think a private investigator is the silver bullet for your custody battle. You are wrong. Most…
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How to navigate an interstate custody dispute without a map

How to navigate an interstate custody dispute without a map

The High Stakes of Interstate Litigation I watched a client lose their entire claim in the first ten minutes of a deposition because they ignored one simple rule about silence. We were sitting in a cramped, windowless conference room that smelled of stale air and industrial cleaner. The case involved a child moved from Texas…
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How to prove a parent is unfit without looking like a vengeful ex

How to prove a parent is unfit without looking like a vengeful ex

The air in my office usually smells like strong black coffee and old paper. Most clients come in looking for a therapist, but they need a tactician. If you want to prove a parent is unfit, the first thing you need to do is stop talking about your feelings. I watched a client lose their…
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Why your child support amount isn't as high as the online calculator says

Why your child support amount isn’t as high as the online calculator says

Sit down. Drink your coffee. We need to talk about why that number you found on a free website is a total fiction. Most parents come into my office clutching a printout from a state calculator like it is a holy relic. It is not. It is a baseline that ignores the friction of the…
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Why your child's preference doesn't automatically decide custody

Why your child’s preference doesn’t automatically decide custody

Sit down and drink your coffee. You came here because you think your fourteen-year-old’s desire to live with your ex-spouse is a legal slam dunk. You are wrong. Everyone wants their day in court until they see the reality of a bench trial. It isn’t about truth; it’s about perception and the cold, hard application…
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