Category: Marriage & Prenuptial Agreements

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Why your prenuptial agreement might be thrown out by a judge later

Why your prenuptial agreement might be thrown out by a judge later

I smell like strong black coffee and the cold residue of a courtroom that has seen better days. You think your prenuptial agreement is a shield. It is likely a sieve. I recently spent 14 hours deconstructing a contract that was designed to be unreadable, only to find the one clause that changed everything. The…
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The specific clauses that make a prenup virtually bulletproof

The specific clauses that make a prenup virtually bulletproof

The office smells like strong black coffee and the cold residue of a long night spent over a messy discovery file. You are here because you think your assets are safe behind a piece of paper. Most people walking into my office have a contract that is essentially a ticking time bomb. They think they…
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The dangers of drafting your own postnuptial agreement online

The dangers of drafting your own postnuptial agreement online

The 14 hour autopsy of a digital failure I recently spent 14 hours deconstructing a contract that was designed to be unreadable, only to find the one clause that changed everything. The client had downloaded a postnuptial agreement from a popular legal form site for forty nine dollars, thinking they had secured their financial future.…
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The paperwork you need to prove your business is pre-marital property

The paperwork you need to prove your business is pre-marital property

The brutal reality of business ownership and divorce I recently spent 14 hours deconstructing a contract that was designed to be unreadable, only to find the one clause that changed everything for my client. It was not a grand legal theory that saved their business. It was a single, dusty bank statement from 1998 that…
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The strategy for keeping your business if you didn't sign a prenup

The strategy for keeping your business if you didn’t sign a prenup

Sit down and drink your coffee. It is going to be a long day and you probably will not like what I have to say. You built a company from nothing, or maybe you built it from a small seed, and now your spouse wants half of the harvest because you thought a prenuptial agreement…
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The mistake that makes your postnup completely unenforceable

The mistake that makes your postnup completely unenforceable

The smell of strong black coffee permeates my office while I stare at a stack of documents that will soon be worthless. You think your marriage is protected because you signed a piece of paper. You are wrong. Most postnuptial agreements are not worth the premium bond paper they are printed on because they ignore…
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Why your pre-marriage assets might actually be at risk

Why your pre-marriage assets might actually be at risk

I recently spent 14 hours deconstructing a contract that was designed to be unreadable, only to find the one clause that changed everything. My client sat across from me, the smell of burnt coffee filling my office, convinced his pre-marriage real estate portfolio was an untouchable fortress. He was wrong. A single repair invoice for…
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How to draft a prenup that actually protects your future kids

How to draft a prenup that actually protects your future kids

I recently spent 14 hours deconstructing a contract that was designed to be unreadable, only to find the one clause that changed everything. It was a single sentence buried in the choice of law provision that effectively disinherited the client’s children from their first marriage. This is the reality of the draft. It is a…
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Why your pre-marital debt could become shared debt

Why your pre-marital debt could become shared debt

I watched a client lose their entire claim in the first ten minutes of a deposition because they ignored one simple rule about silence. We were sitting in a sterile conference room overlooking the harbor, and the opposing counsel asked about a credit card account opened three years before the marriage. My client, desperate to…
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The mistake of assuming your business is off-limits during a split

The mistake of assuming your business is off-limits during a split

Sit down. Drink your coffee. It is going to be a long night because your business is not the fortress you think it is. You spent fifteen years building a firm, missing dinners, and sweating over payroll, and now you believe that your name on the articles of incorporation makes the entity off-limits. It does…
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