Category: Family Law

Strategic legal leverage for your most critical assets.

How to handle a social worker's unannounced visit to your home

How to handle a social worker’s unannounced visit to your home

The scent of ozone and mint hangs in the air of my office when I take these calls. It is the smell of a crisis that could have been avoided with a basic understanding of procedural leverage. I watched a client lose their entire claim in the first ten minutes of a deposition because they…
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How to get a restraining order when there is no physical abuse

How to get a restraining order when there is no physical abuse

I watched a client lose their entire claim in the first ten minutes of a deposition because they ignored one simple rule about silence. We were sitting in a cramped conference room that smelled like ozone and cheap mints. The opposing counsel asked a question about a text message exchange. My client answered, then felt…
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The specific evidence needed to prove a common law marriage

The specific evidence needed to prove a common law marriage

The deposition that ended before it started I watched a client lose their entire claim in the first ten minutes of a deposition because they ignored one simple rule about silence. We were sitting in a cramped conference room that smelled of stale coffee and industrial cleaner. The opposing counsel asked a simple question about…
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How to legally change your name after a second marriage

How to legally change your name after a second marriage

The paper trail that haunts your second wedding Legal name changes after a second marriage require a valid marriage certificate and often a prior divorce decree to establish a clear chain of identity. You must update your Social Security record before attempting to change your driver license or passport. This process involves specific statutory filings…
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How to get a guardian ad litem removed from your custody case

How to get a guardian ad litem removed from your custody case

The reality of the guardian ad litem in high-stakes litigation Everyone wants their day in court until they see the jury selection process. It isn’t about truth; it’s about perception. In custody battles, the Guardian Ad Litem (GAL) is the lens through which the judge perceives your reality. If that lens is cracked, your case…
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Why your social worker’s report might be biased against your parenting

Why your social worker’s report might be biased against your parenting

I smell strong black coffee and the metallic scent of a courthouse elevator. That is the environment where your parenting will be judged, not in the comfort of your living room. I watched a client lose their entire claim in the first ten minutes of a deposition because they ignored one simple rule about silence.…
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The truth about grandparent visitation rights in this jurisdiction

The truth about grandparent visitation rights in this jurisdiction

Sit down. Your coffee is cold and your case is probably dead. You think because you share twenty five percent of a child’s DNA that you have a ticket to their weekends. You do not. Most legal services and family law advertisements will tell you that the bond between a grandparent and a grandchild is…
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Why you should never record phone calls with your ex secretly

Why you should never record phone calls with your ex secretly

I watched a client lose their entire claim in the first ten minutes of a deposition because they ignored one simple rule about silence. They thought they were being clever by playing a secret recording of their ex spouse during a mediation session. Instead of winning the case, the judge sanctioned them for violating state…
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The risk of dating someone new during your legal battle

The risk of dating someone new during your legal battle

I watched a client lose their entire claim in the first ten minutes of a deposition because they ignored one simple rule about silence. We were in a mahogany paneled room that smelled of strong black coffee and old paper. My client, a spouse in a high-asset divorce, was asked a simple question about their…
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How to protect your pets during a high-conflict separation

How to protect your pets during a high-conflict separation

I watched a client lose their entire claim in the first ten minutes of a deposition because they ignored one simple rule about silence. We were litigating the possession of a three year old Golden Retriever. My client, an executive with a penchant for over-explaining, began to ramble about the emotional bond. Opposing counsel sat…
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