Category: Divorce & Separation

Strategic legal leverage for your most critical assets.

How to get a judge to increase your alimony based on new lifestyle

How to get a judge to increase your alimony based on new lifestyle

I recently spent 14 hours deconstructing a contract that was designed to be unreadable, only to find the one clause that changed everything. That experience is the perfect metaphor for alimony litigation. You walk into my office thinking a higher utility bill or a new car payment justifies more support. I am here to tell…
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The financial danger of signing a quick settlement to avoid a fight

The financial danger of signing a quick settlement to avoid a fight

The financial danger of signing a quick settlement to avoid a fight The smell of strong black coffee is the only thing that makes these mornings tolerable. You are sitting across from me because you want out. You are tired. You are exhausted by the phone calls and the mounting bills. You want to sign…
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The mistake of thinking your adultery will get you a better settlement

The mistake of thinking your adultery will get you a better settlement

I drink my black coffee at 5:00 AM while looking at files that would make most people lose their faith in humanity. By 9:00 AM, I am usually sitting across from a client who is vibrating with righteous fury because their spouse cheated. They want blood. They want the house, the retirement accounts, and a…
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How to divide the value of a small business without selling it

How to divide the value of a small business without selling it

I recently spent 14 hours deconstructing a contract that was designed to be unreadable, only to find the one clause that changed everything. It was a standard operating agreement buried under layers of boilerplate text. My client thought they were safe because they owned 51 percent of the entity. They were wrong. A hidden drag-along…
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The reason your spouse's bonus is still considered marital property

The reason your spouse’s bonus is still considered marital property

I walk into the courtroom and the air always carries a specific electric charge. It smells like ozone and mint. My suit is pressed. My strategy is sharper. You are here because you believe that the check your spouse received six months after you separated belongs entirely to them. You are wrong. In the world…
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How to get your legal fees paid by your spouse in a lopsided case

How to get your legal fees paid by your spouse in a lopsided case

Your divorce is a war of attrition. If your spouse has the keys to the vault and you are checking the couch cushions for change, you have already lost. I see it every week. A spouse walks in with a hundred-page printout of text messages and zero dollars for a retainer. They think the truth…
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How to stop your spouse from selling marital assets before trial

How to stop your spouse from selling marital assets before trial

The air in my office smells like strong black coffee and the cold residue of a long night spent reviewing bank statements. Most people come to me when the house is already on fire, expecting me to save the furniture while the roof collapses. If you are reading this, you likely suspect your spouse is…
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Why your spouse's student loans might be your problem too

Why your spouse’s student loans might be your problem too

Why your spouse’s student loans might be your problem too I recently spent 14 hours deconstructing a contract that was designed to be unreadable, only to find the one clause that changed everything. It was a simple line about indemnification buried in a stack of refinancing paperwork that my client had signed without a second…
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The mistake of letting your adult children influence your divorce strategy

The mistake of letting your adult children influence your divorce strategy

The deposition disaster that changed a twenty year marriage The destruction of a divorce strategy often begins when adult children provide legal advice to their parents. This interference compromises attorney-client privilege, creates evidentiary trails that defense counsel will exploit, and introduces emotional bias that prevents rational settlement negotiations during the litigation process in family court…
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The danger of dating someone who is still legally married

The danger of dating someone who is still legally married

The air in the deposition room always smells like stale coffee and bad intentions. I watched a client lose their entire claim in the first ten minutes of a deposition because they ignored one simple rule about silence. We were four hours into a grueling session when the opposing counsel asked a seemingly benign question…
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