Category: Divorce & Separation

Strategic legal leverage for your most critical assets.

How to protect your digital assets in a modern divorce

How to protect your digital assets in a modern divorce

The office smells of stale black coffee and the harsh, metallic scent of a laser printer that has been running for six hours straight. You sit across from me, and the first thing I will tell you is that your case is already in jeopardy. You think your divorce is about who gets the house…
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How to get temporary alimony while your case is pending

How to get temporary alimony while your case is pending

The litigation process is a war of attrition where the side with the most liquidity often dictates the terms of the surrender. I watched a client lose their entire claim in the first ten minutes of a deposition because they ignored one simple rule about silence. They felt the need to fill the air, and…
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How to legally block your spouse from selling the family car

How to legally block your spouse from selling the family car

Sit down and drink your coffee. It is black, bitter, and exactly what you need to hear before we discuss your marital assets. You think that because your name is the only one on the car title, you have the absolute right to control its fate. You are wrong. I watched a client lose their…
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Why your spouse’s 401k is part of your settlement

Why your spouse’s 401k is part of your settlement

I recently spent 14 hours deconstructing a contract that was designed to be unreadable, only to find the one clause that changed everything. It was tucked away in a sub-paragraph regarding post-termination benefits, a sequence of words so dense they were meant to be ignored. This is the reality of family law litigation. You think…
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How to handle a spouse who hides assets in a new business

How to handle a spouse who hides assets in a new business

How to Handle a Spouse Who Hides Assets in a New Business I recently spent 14 hours deconstructing a contract that was designed to be unreadable, only to find the one clause that changed everything. My client thought her husband was simply ‘investing’ in a new consulting firm. The reality was much darker. He had…
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How to win a dispute over who keeps the family home

How to win a dispute over who keeps the family home

The coffee in my mug is cold, black, and matches the mood of this office. You want the house. Everyone wants the house. They think about the garden and the crown molding. I think about the deed, the mortgage, and the statutory requirements for transmutation. If you are here for an emotional pep talk, find…
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Why your 'friendly' divorce is about to get very expensive

Why your ‘friendly’ divorce is about to get very expensive

The high price of a friendly divorce I watched a client lose their entire claim in the first ten minutes of a deposition because they ignored one simple rule about silence. They thought they were being helpful. They thought being friendly would speed things up. Instead, they handed the opposing counsel a roadmap to their…
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Why your spouse's student loans might be your problem too

Why your spouse’s student loans might be your problem too

The smell of stale, strong black coffee is the only thing keeping this deposition room from feeling like a morgue. You are sitting across from a partner who looks at you not as a human, but as a liability. I recently spent 14 hours deconstructing a contract that was designed to be unreadable, only to…
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Why your business valuation is likely wrong in a divorce

Why your business valuation is likely wrong in a divorce

I watched a client lose their entire claim in the first ten minutes of a deposition because they ignored one simple rule about silence. We were sitting in a cramped, wood-paneled conference room that smelled of stale coffee and ink. The opposing counsel asked a vague question about the company’s dip in quarterly revenue. Instead…
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Why your spouse is suddenly buying expensive assets

Why your spouse is suddenly buying expensive assets

The air in a high stakes litigation suite often smells of ozone and fresh mint. It is the scent of high speed printers churning out thousand page motions and the sharp clarity of a lawyer who has seen every trick in the financial book. I recently spent 14 hours deconstructing a contract that was designed…
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