Category: Child Custody & Support

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5 ways to document an ex's missed visitation without being petty

5 ways to document an ex’s missed visitation without being petty

Documentation strategies for visitation interference I watched a client lose their entire claim in the first ten minutes of a deposition because they ignored one simple rule about silence. They spoke when they should have listened. They emoted when they should have recorded. In the high stakes arena of family law litigation, your feelings are…
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How to handle a social worker who doesn't like your parenting style

How to handle a social worker who doesn’t like your parenting style

Navigating Hostile Social Worker Investigations with Litigation Precision I watched a client lose their entire claim to custody in the first ten minutes of a social worker home visit because they ignored one simple rule about silence. They thought they were being helpful by explaining their philosophy on discipline while the caseworker took notes on…
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3 ways to use financial records to prove parental neglect

3 ways to use financial records to prove parental neglect

I watched a client lose their entire claim in the first ten minutes of a deposition because they ignored one simple rule about silence. They felt the pressure to fill the quiet air with justification. They started explaining away why their ex spouse’s bank statements didn’t seem that bad. In that moment of weakness, they…
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How to use a parenting coordinator to end the bickering

How to use a parenting coordinator to end the bickering

The silent killer of family law cases I watched a client lose their entire claim in the first ten minutes of a deposition because they ignored one simple rule about silence. They felt the need to fill the void. They felt the need to explain. In family law litigation, that same impulse leads to the…
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Why your 'informal' child support agreement is a legal nightmare

Why your ‘informal’ child support agreement is a legal nightmare

The high cost of handshake deals in family litigation You sit across from me in this office, smelling the stale air of a thousand failed negotiations, and you tell me you have a verbal agreement. You think the coffee is bitter? Wait until you see the interest on twenty-four months of retroactive child support. I…
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The truth about using private investigators in custody battles

The truth about using private investigators in custody battles

The illusion of the smoking gun Private investigators in family law are often a waste of resources. Most legal services firms know that litigation outcomes depend on the best interests of the child, not minor parental indiscretions. Surveillance rarely yields the smoking gun parents expect during a consultation. I watched a client lose their entire…
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Why your child's preference might not change the custody order

Why your child’s preference might not change the custody order

Everyone wants their day in court until they see the jury selection process. It isn’t about truth; it’s about perception. I sat in a mahogany-paneled room three weeks ago. My client thought her thirteen-year-old son’s letter to the judge was a golden ticket. It was a suicide note for her case. She did not understand…
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How to spot if your spouse is coaching the children

How to spot if your spouse is coaching the children

How to spot if your spouse is coaching the children I watched a client lose their entire claim in the first ten minutes of a deposition because they ignored one simple rule about silence. The child, barely nine years old, sat across from me in a conference room that smelled of stale air and bad…
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How to respond when your ex files for a custody modification

How to respond when your ex files for a custody modification

I watched a client lose their entire claim in the first ten minutes of a deposition because they ignored one simple rule about silence. They thought their words were a shield. They were wrong. Words in a family law litigation environment are ammunition for the opposition. If you have been served with a petition for…
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The downside of a birdnesting custody arrangement

The downside of a birdnesting custody arrangement

The deposition that died in the nest Birdnesting custody arrangements frequently fail because they ignore the adversarial nature of family law litigation and the evidentiary standards required in superior court. I watched a client lose their entire claim in the first ten minutes of a deposition because they ignored one simple rule about silence. We…
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