Category: Alternative Dispute Resolution

Strategic legal leverage for your most critical assets.

Why your mediation agreement isn't actually binding until this happens

Why your mediation agreement isn’t actually binding until this happens

The illusion of the final signature I recently spent 14 hours deconstructing a contract that was designed to be unreadable, only to find the one clause that changed everything. My client sat across from me, the smell of strong black coffee filling the room, convinced the litigation was over because they had signed a piece…
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How to stop a lawsuit before it ever reaches the courtroom

How to stop a lawsuit before it ever reaches the courtroom

The Brutal Reality of Pre Litigation Strategy The office smells like strong black coffee and old paper. You are here because you think you have a case. Or worse, you think you can win. Most clients walk in with a sense of righteous indignation that usually lasts until the first billable hour. I watched a…
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How to deal with a narcissist in a formal mediation room

How to deal with a narcissist in a formal mediation room

The room where silence becomes a weapon I watched a client lose their entire claim in the first ten minutes of a deposition because they ignored one simple rule about silence. We were in a mahogany paneled room that smelled like old paper and expensive floor wax. The air was thick with the scent of…
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Why collaborative law isn't always the cheapest option for couples

Why collaborative law isn’t always the cheapest option for couples

I recently spent 14 hours deconstructing a contract that was designed to be unreadable, only to find the one clause that changed everything. It was a collaborative law participation agreement. The couple thought they were being civil. They thought they were saving money. They were actually signing away their right to keep their legal counsel…
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Why mediation fails when there is a history of domestic abuse

Why mediation fails when there is a history of domestic abuse

I smell like strong black coffee. I am here to tell you that your legal strategy is failing before you even step into the conference room. You have been told that mediation is a peaceful alternative to the scorched-earth policy of a trial. You have been told it saves money. For most, that is true.…
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How to vet a mediator before you agree to sit down

How to vet a mediator before you agree to sit down

I watched a client lose their entire claim in the first ten minutes of a deposition because they ignored one simple rule about silence. It was a cold Tuesday morning and the air smelled like strong black coffee and old paper. The mediator we hired was supposed to be a neutral force, but he was…
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Why your mediation statement should stay confidential

Why your mediation statement should stay confidential

I watched a client lose their entire claim in the first ten minutes of a deposition because they ignored one simple rule about silence. They thought being helpful would win over the opposition. It did the opposite. It gave the defense a roadmap to their jugular. In the high-stakes environment of family law and civil…
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Why you should never sign a settlement in the hallway

Why you should never sign a settlement in the hallway

I watched a client lose their entire claim in the first ten minutes of a deposition because they ignored one simple rule about silence. We were in a cold, fluorescent-lit room in downtown Chicago. The defense attorney was a vulture. He stopped speaking. My client, uncomfortable with the void, started explaining why they felt guilty…
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How to negotiate a settlement when your ex is a narcissist

How to negotiate a settlement when your ex is a narcissist

The room smells like strong black coffee. It is the only thing keeping this room grounded while you sit across from a person who spent ten years gaslighting your reality. Your case is failing. It is failing because you still think the law is about what is fair. It is not. The law is a…
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The reason your mediation failed and how to fix it

The reason your mediation failed and how to fix it

The reason your mediation failed and how to fix it I smell like strong black coffee and the cold residue of a ten hour negotiation that went nowhere. Your case is failing. You walked into that conference room thinking the truth would set you free, but truth is a luxury you cannot afford when the…
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